为什么越来越多的人，都不愿意走亲戚了？
<pre ng-bind-html="message.MMActualContent" style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: 16px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);" data-mpa-powered-by="yiban.io"><p style="outline: 0px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;text-align: center;"><br/></p></pre><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com"><p style="text-align:center;vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">对于现代人来说</span></p><p style="text-align:center;vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">过年就是走亲戚串朋友的时候了</span></p><p style="text-align:center;vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">在以前,很多人都会争着去走亲戚</span></p><p style="text-align:center;vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: 16px;font-variant-numeric: normal;widows: 1;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 2em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(171, 25, 66);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">但是近几年</strong></span></p><p style="text-align:center;vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: 16px;font-variant-numeric: normal;widows: 1;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 2em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(171, 25, 66);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">年轻人却不太愿意去走亲戚了</strong></span></p><p style="text-align:center;vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: 16px;font-variant-numeric: normal;widows: 1;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 2em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(171, 25, 66);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">这究竟是为什么呢?</strong></span></p><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 16px;text-align: center;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;width: 6em;height: 3em;display: inline-block;background-image: url(http://bbs.jjxw.cn/plugin.php?id=wcn_editor:wx_img&url=https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/4AickKYcnpibtN2NNG1PzYzjwG9iaS8r7bYLvJtaRAQz4h4YmBPxC2TpMkfU0E8t7YmXh0OfucsgtoMYzZAEA5Pqg/640?wx_fmt=gif);background-size: 100%;background-position: 0px 50%;background-repeat: no-repeat;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);min-width: 1px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">1</span></p></section></section><p style="text-align:center;vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">生活水平提高</strong></span></p><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: 16px;line-height: 2em;text-indent: 0em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">在以前的农村,一年难得吃上几顿好饭,而在走亲戚的时候,往往都能吃上一顿大餐,这是很多人走亲戚的动力,但是现在生活水平提高了,谁还会在意这些。</span></p><p style="text-align:center;vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 16px;text-align: center;font-variant-numeric: normal;widows: 1;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;width: 6em;height: 3em;display: inline-block;background-image: url(http://bbs.jjxw.cn/plugin.php?id=wcn_editor:wx_img&url=https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/4AickKYcnpibtN2NNG1PzYzjwG9iaS8r7bYLvJtaRAQz4h4YmBPxC2TpMkfU0E8t7YmXh0OfucsgtoMYzZAEA5Pqg/640?wx_fmt=gif);background-size: 100%;background-position: 0px 50%;background-repeat: no-repeat;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);min-width: 1px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">2</span></p></section></section><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="87856" style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 16px;text-align: center;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">娱乐方式增多</strong></span></p><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="text-align:left;vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">以前去走亲戚,可以看看热闹,和亲戚家的人聊天,打牌等,但是现在,在家的娱乐方式都多种多样,谁还愿意冒着寒冷走亲戚。</span></p></section></section></section></section><p style="text-align:center;vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="__bg_gif rich_pages wxw-img" data-backh="180" data-backw="320" data-ratio="0.5625" src="http://bbs.jjxw.cn/plugin.php?id=wcn_editor:wx_img&url=https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/4AickKYcnpibtN2NNG1PzYzjwG9iaS8r7bYUPZSAlhtiagEnNYrJiaoJFicqTnbaN0oZLRO6cqNo3AxvW3QZzFlsbZdw/640?wx_fmt=gif" data-type="gif" data-w="320" style="box-sizing: border-box;outline: 0px;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(238, 237, 235);background-color: rgb(238, 237, 235);background-size: 22px;background-position: 50% 50%;background-repeat: no-repeat;width: auto;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;" width="auto"/></p><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 16px;text-align: center;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;width: 6em;height: 3em;display: inline-block;background-image: url(http://bbs.jjxw.cn/plugin.php?id=wcn_editor:wx_img&url=https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/4AickKYcnpibtN2NNG1PzYzjwG9iaS8r7bYLvJtaRAQz4h4YmBPxC2TpMkfU0E8t7YmXh0OfucsgtoMYzZAEA5Pqg/640?wx_fmt=gif);background-size: 100%;background-position: 0px 50%;background-repeat: no-repeat;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);min-width: 1px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">3</span></p></section></section><p style="text-align:center;vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">会遭遇尴尬</strong></span></p><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 16px;text-align: center;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="text-align:left;vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">现在走亲戚也成了一件攀比的事,有的亲戚会根据你的礼品和交通工具评价一番,</span><strong><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(171, 25, 66);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">以前小的时候不在意,但是现在非常在意。</span></strong></p><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">再就是不少人在外面打拼</span></p><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">累死累活的</span></p><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">可能还没混出个头脸来</span></p><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">每次走亲戚都不免被问到“在外面干什么活?</span></p><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">一个月多少钱啊?</span></p><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">一年怎么也有个十来万儿吧?”</span></p><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">可怎么回答呢,心里难为的很</span></p><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(171, 25, 66);">要说没挣着钱</span></strong></p><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(171, 25, 66);">人家说你生分不说实话</span></strong></p><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(171, 25, 66);">你要说挣了钱</span></strong></p><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(171, 25, 66);">这也不是啥好事……</span></strong></p><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">要不就是比拼学习成绩</span></p><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">今年考了第几啊,有没有拿奖学金?</span></p><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">找到对象了么?啥时候结婚?</span></p><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">啥时候生孩子?</span></p><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">总之各种问</span></p><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(171, 25, 66);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">然后各种对比就变成了各种“伤害”啦……</span></strong></p><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section></section></section><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 16px;text-align: center;font-variant-numeric: normal;widows: 1;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;width: 6em;height: 3em;display: inline-block;background-image: url(http://bbs.jjxw.cn/plugin.php?id=wcn_editor:wx_img&url=https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/4AickKYcnpibtN2NNG1PzYzjwG9iaS8r7bYLvJtaRAQz4h4YmBPxC2TpMkfU0E8t7YmXh0OfucsgtoMYzZAEA5Pqg/640?wx_fmt=gif);background-size: 100%;background-position: 0px 50%;background-repeat: no-repeat;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);min-width: 1px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">4</span></p></section></section><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="87856" style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 16px;text-align: center;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">交流存在代沟</strong></span></p><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">很多年轻人都是常年在外的</span></p><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">行为和思想的差异造就没有交流话题</span></p></section></section></section><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">往年没有见面的亲戚好友</span></p><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">在这一天互相叙旧唠嗑</span></p><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">聊聊身边发生的事情</span></p><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">也聊聊最近家里发生的事情</span></p><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">然而</span></p><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">现在的年轻人都不太愿意走亲戚</span></p><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">难道是现在的年轻人太懒?</span></p><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">还是现在的年轻人看不起穷亲戚?</span></p><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;text-decoration: underline;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">也许都不是,也可能是疏远了</span></strong></p><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;text-decoration: underline;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">也有可能是有代沟</span></strong></p><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">像90后00后很多都是独生子女</span></p><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母都是捧在手心</span></p><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(171, 25, 66);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">而老一辈大多都是亲兄弟亲姐妹</span></strong></p><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(171, 25, 66);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">都一起同甘共苦过</span></strong></p><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(171, 25, 66);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">都有那么一层维系的感情</span></strong></p></section><p style="text-align:center;vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="text-align:center;vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">现在很多年轻人都有想法<br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></span></p><p style="text-align:center;vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">也不是不孝顺没爱心</span></p><p style="text-align:center;vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">只是有时候也有难言之隐</span></p><p style="text-align:center;vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">老一辈的人确实在观念和受教育上比不上年轻人</span></p><p style="text-align:center;vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">但是年轻人也要放开心思</span></p><p style="text-align:center;vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">不必想太多了</span></p><p style="text-align:center;vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: 16px;font-variant-numeric: normal;widows: 1;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 2em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="text-align:center;vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">其实在任何时候<br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></span></p><p style="text-align:center;vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">人与人最为密切的还是姻亲关系</span></p><p style="text-align:center;vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">我们更应该重视亲戚间的来往</span></p><p style="text-align:center;vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">长辈们常给我们说<br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></span></p><p style="text-align:center;vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(171, 25, 66);">亲戚之间不来往,就淡了!</span></strong></p><p style="text-align:center;vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(171, 25, 66);">亲戚就是走出来的!</span></strong></p><p style="text-align:center;vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">尴尬总归有缓解尴尬的方式的!</span></p><p style="text-align:center;vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">特别是过年,谁还不走个亲戚呢?</span></p><p style="text-align:center;vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: 16px;font-variant-numeric: normal;widows: 1;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 2em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="text-align:center;vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: 16px;font-variant-numeric: normal;widows: 1;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 2em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;background-color: rgb(192, 0, 0);color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">对此，你有什么看法呢?</strong></span></p><p style="text-align:center;vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: 16px;font-variant-numeric: normal;widows: 1;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 2em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;background-color: rgb(192, 0, 0);color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word 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原创2022年5月31日
上图，石花屋村位于小池镇以北3公里，东与板桥畈村接壤，西到京九铁路，大龙公路穿境而过，交通便捷。全村现有耕地面积1214亩，渔塘100余亩，5个村民小组，358户，1271人，党员33人，4个党小组。2009年棉花产量达20万公斤，人均纯收入5600元。 石花屋村与张东湾村、虞菜园社区、杨列村、五里桥社区、刘畈村、沙池村、新河桥社区、唐司月村、普济宫社区、王世九村、帅龙凼社区、杨塘村、马列村、吕弄村相邻。
上图，我从老家王十九村走路回来，路过吕弄村，和一些亲朋戚友在一起聊天，交流，互诉衷肠
上图，沿着清江河直往南走，路过三列村 今天，2022年5月31日，也是5月的最后一天，还有三天就是传统节日端午节，我在石花屋村北面的刘畈村带着节日的慰问品看望了80岁的姐姐，又在吕弄村，和一些亲朋戚友在一起聊天，交流，互诉衷肠，我沿着清江河往南走，这里每行一步似乎都有我的亲朋戚友，清江河这个名称我太熟悉了，我就出生在小池街清江河附近，70年前就是从这里讨饭到武宁。这一带风景点有妙乐寺、四祖寺、五祖寺、太白湖、玫瑰谷观光生态园、大源湖、等旅游景点。今天主要是探亲访友，再好的景点也不去了，何况以前都去过。
三列村是湖北省黄冈市黄梅县小池镇下辖的行政村，城乡分类代码为121，为镇中心区。区划代码为421127102206，居民身份证号码前6位为421127。邮政编码为438000，长途电话区号为0713 ，车牌号码为鄂J。三列村与吕咀村、杨泗村、滨江路社区、泥池村、清江路社区、卢段村、新河路社区、大堰村、业庄村、水产场社区、顾家村、石团湖社区、沿江社区、徐桥村相邻。2018年1月，湖北省环境保护委员会授予三列村2017年度湖北省省级生态村称号。
为什么越来越多的人，都不愿意走亲戚了？
在农村有三亲三不亲的说法，而姑舅亲算是至亲，毕竟老话说“三代不离舅家风”，“天上的雷公，地上的舅公”，舅家是母亲的娘家，也是最重要的外戚，不管到那一辈都说很亲的；姑姑家也是，它是父亲的姊妹，也是姑姑的娘家，自然和舅舅家相似，对于这句是俗语，是说明了，农村亲戚的“三亲”；还有一句俗语是“姨表亲，不算亲，死了姨娘断门亲”，这句俗语的意思在于反映了农村亲戚的未来，为何说“姨表亲，不算亲”？在农村，人与人关系的形成，有先天的血缘关系，也有后天的交际关系，而姨表亲是母亲的姊妹，也就是姨娘，随着岁月的流逝，倘若姨娘不在了，那么两家的关系也就慢慢的淡了，可以说不出三代，就成陌路。这是为何老农说，“一代亲，二代表，三代就了了”的含义；其实，在笔者看来，亲戚间的关系关键在于交流，比如外甥从小在舅舅家家带大，大了成人就与舅家“反目”，现实例子不少，所以，不管是亲戚、朋友，多交流，多走动才能保持亲朋戚友的关系维持在“牢不可破”。
为什么越来越多的人，都不愿意走亲戚了？
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从历史上看，走亲访友，是我国人民自古以来的传统习俗，在我们九江湖口，就流传着“有钱无钱，回家过年”的谚语，更脍炙人口的“每逢佳节倍思亲”更是家喻户晓。有了亲人相聚的节日气氛，才会有节日的气氛。
从现实情况看，两年来的疫情存在，全国大部分城市开始封路、封村，封社区，紧接着开始居家隔离。全国都在“外防病毒输入，内行动态清零”九江做得很好，100多万人口核酸检测呈“清零”状态，但省内外高风险地区还有存在。故笔者以为：
1.对于有疫情的地区来说，节日期间肯定是不能走亲戚的。如果因为大家互相串门，导致疫情升级，那后果将不堪设想；2.对于没有疫情的地区来说，我认为节日期间，适当走亲访友，做好戴口罩，勤洗手等有效措施还是可以的。但在有风险地区绝不可以，毕竟聚众扎堆，不利于疫情防控；3，现在有专业人士预测，2023年下半年疫情可望结束，希望在这以后恢复中国人走亲访友的习俗 4，总之，春节能不能回家过年？能不能走亲串户？我们到时听国家卫健委，国家疾控中心，地方政府的指导，到时国家级如都说只要做好那些防护就可以自由流动。那我们为什么不回家过节？去年都没有走成的亲戚好朋友，为什么不走？按现在情况正常发展应该不是问题，现在国内飞机，火车动车，轮船，汽车都在正常流动，到时有钱无钱都要回家过年。应该不是问题！
现在和手机最亲，手机在，家在、快乐在、一切都在。
逢年过节走亲戚拜年，这是多少年来老祖宗传下来的传统习俗；丢了的话，太可惜了。我们应该坚定不移地固守老传统，一代接一代地传承下去。拒绝新的拜年方式！
天南地北散着，疫情阻隔，个人的谋生节奏不同，时间碎片化等等原因
都让亲戚之间走动不那么方便了
以前都不出去就村里待着，除了种庄稼就剩闲空走亲戚了，那时亲戚多还能互相帮衬，借钱打架不受欺负。
现在法制社会，相互的依存没有那么紧密了！
自从親变成亲，国人之间就少有见面之说，不见面的时间长了、自然也就疏远了，疏远了的人之间也就慢慢地淡忘了。 富不还乡，穷不走亲
除了过年过节，平时各忙各的，双休息日又想休息，放松平时紧张的身心，还要陪伴家人，哪有空余时间走亲戚？
说到底，时代变了。中国已经不再是传统的熟人社会了。走亲戚有啥用嘛？能帮你找工作，还是能帮你借钱？纯粹的亲情，谁在乎？
以前请朋友在家里吃饭，现在都是进饭馆。
天南海北，有时候是距离隔离了很多